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  • May 25
  • 4 min read

I saw something online about cat mthys and was like that's absoultely ridiculous. I'm going to dive into some myths about cats. Ones that even the most hardcore cat enthusiast will refer to. Even I joke about some of the cat myths, that I know are just that a myth. So here goes - cat myths, truths and facts.


Cats can see in the dark, their vision is better.

How nice would that be - seeing in the total darkness of the night. They cannot see in the absolute dark, but their eyes are more adaptaive to low light. Cats eye let in more light than a human eye does. So go ahead and leave nightlight on for them. Complete darkness is not their friend.

Cats are nocturnal.

They are something - but its actually called crepuscular. Before writing about the myths of cats - I had no idea that word existed. Let's start with a definition:

Crepuscular: - of, relating to, or resembling twilight : dim

Broken down in a cat's world - they are most active during dawn and dusk. Typically they will sleep or rest thru the daylight hours. (my cats may need to be reminded of this...) You'll also find they sleep during the deepest hours of the night. Somehow, my cats must have completely missed this memo. Their best play time happens in the deepest hours of our nights. Bottom line, cats eyes function best in low-light versus a dark or brightly lit room.


A purring cat is happy cat.

Purring the feline world is not all happy. It can be a multitude of other things. It's a way they let us know how they are feeling. Purring can mean stress, pain, frightened or it can be them self-soothing. Truly understanding a cats purr is hard, but yet one of their biggest ways to let us know what is going on. To truly know what that purr means, you'll have to look at the larger picture of what is going on.


Black Cats = bad luck.

This is a big one in the USA. So big in fact that many rescues will not adopt out black cats close to halloween. For good reason most of the time, but yet sad that we have to be so careful. This is actually an old superstition that started in Medieval Europe, as they were associated with witches and perceived as the embodiement of demons. Today a black cat crossing your path is thought to be bad luck. If you live in Japan, Scotland, England or Ireland black cats could mean: good fortune, love, prosperity or impending wealth. Truth be told - I'd take any of those over the bad luck.


You can't train a cat.

There's definately a mixed feeling on this one. I prefer saying - cats have a mind of their own and are strong willed. If it doesn't suit them, absolutely they may seem un-trainable. Truth be told - training a cat requires lots of patience and positive reinforcement. Cats can be taught good manners, tricks and more. It's moreso a matter of the time and effort. I equate cats to kids. We train them, but every so often they still do what they know they aren't allowed to. We have a cat that does get grounded - to the sunporch. When he's being the most out of line he gets a time out to cool down.


Cats always land on their feet.

This is absolutely false. Granted 99% of the time they may land on their feet. But there's some things that help determine if they truly will land on their feet. Cats having something called a righting reflex - a physiological response that keeps the body balanced and upright. It's an automatic reflex (yep humans have it to). How is it possible in cats? They have flexible spines and sensitive inner ears to start, but they do need adequate space to complete the manuever to land on their feet. A fall from to low of a space - means they don't have enough room to complete the twist to right them selves, a fall from to high allows them to complet the twist but pick up lives. velocity and relax before landing. This can still end in injury. Moment's before landing from a fall, cats arch their back to absorbe the shock then flattens out their body to slow the fall and lastly extends all four legs for landing. Not as easy as they make it look!


Cats can drink milk.

A tough one...here's the scoop with cats and milk poducts. Cats are in fact lactose intolerant. Cats have an enzyme "lactase" that breaks down the sugar in milk - BUT as cats age that enzyme goes away. Kittens need their mom's milk to get a healthy start (or a kitten formula), but definately NOT milk that humans drink. When they drink regular milk it leads to upset stomach, vomiting and diarhea. None of which is pleasant for the cat or it's owners. We see it all the time - cats begging for the milk from your cereal bowl or glass of milk. Sure they love it, but it is in fact one of the worst things for them. Sometimes, if a cat has been given milk routinely from early on, they may not be lactose intolerant, although it's best if you don't let that become a habit. Giving them milk is a calorie overload on their system with absolutely no nutrition (much like junk food for humans). A small saucer of milk is the equivilant to a human eating a 12 inch pizza.


Cats have 9 lives.

This is sadly a myth - they only have 1 life. It's a centuries old provberb stemming from folklore. It most likely originates from ancient Egyptian culture. Cats were revered as gods and symbols of resurrection as well as the mystical significance of the number 9. Cat's have a few things on their side that make them live a little longer - quick instincts, fast reflexes, flexible skeletins, and agility to name a few. I'm sure all cat owners have or had a cat who seemed to use of some of the mytical 9 lives. For us that was Jasper who certaintly used all 9 and smokey who used one of hers and a dozen of mine that I surely don't have!


Drop in the comments a myth you've heard or what you thoughts are on these myths!


Till our tails cross again,


Mel





  • May 18
  • 3 min read

Craft show season is starting. It's hard to believe there is a "season" for it, but it's true. Where I live, the craft shows start popping up in late spring/early summer and go right until Christmas time. I love all pieces of a craft show - from crafting & selling, seeing what others are making, purchasing from crafters, to talking with like-minded crafters and people shopping.


When I made the dive into selling at craft shows, I also decided I would sell online. Online selling is nowhere near as easy as in person. It's absolutely hard to get people to see your items (and it doesn't seem to matter what online platform you use). I currently utilize two platforms: my blog site and Etsy. There are benefits to each and downsides to each.


On my website, I keep all my profits; no percentage of my sales is going to another company for using their platform. It's slightly easier to list on my site, and if I were more organized, I could use my site inventory to check people out at craft shows and keep better track of my inventory. On Etsy, it's a little more involved to list items; they take a percentage, and I have to meet criteria for it to even be eligible to sell on Etsy. No big deal, but it's time-consuming, and there's no way for me to list simultaneously on both sites. I have to do them individually, and it can take a good 10 minutes to do (getting the pictures uploaded, writing descriptions, etc.).


The super cheap side of me refuses to pay for marketing/ads. So any traffic that gets to my website is from me telling people about it, handing out business cards, and the rare instance someone tells someone they know about my site. Same deal for Etsy. Only Etsy is widely known; people are always on Etsy looking for stuff. I have no idea how the algorithms work on Etsy to know what is driving people to my shop.


To my surprise, I got a notification earlier this week that I had sold something on Etsy. Shocked. Completely and utterly shocked. Off I go to pack it up and send it out! A sale on Etsy where I only paid a small fee to have an item listed, without spending all day sitting at a craft show waiting for sales. Then, a few days later, I get a second notification of a second sale on Etsy! Shock again, a brief moment of wondering what is driving people to my site. Am I being scammed? Nope - no scam. So far, it appears these are both valid, real purchases. I have shipped both items out, and payment will be hitting my account soon.


It feels good to make a sale on Etsy; hell, it feels good to make any sale at any time! Now I need to get my act together and get more things listed on Etsy and my site. Things won't sell if I don't have them out there for people to see. This also means I need to keep crafting away. It can be hard to dedicate time every day or every week to just craft, as it's not what is paying the bills; it's more of a hobby with a slight chance of making money.


Since I work Saturdays, I try to find craft shows that are on Sundays, which is difficult. If I know a show is going to be a hit, I'll take off for it, but then I feel like I need to make double or triple on my sales to make up for a day of guaranteed pay. I go to a three-day show in October, which is worth me taking off for the income over the course of the three days.


Do you go to craft shows as a shopper or do you prefer to shop online? What things are you looking for that fall into the handmade category? I'm always looking for new things to make & sell.


If you want to come visit me at a craft show I have signed up for a few so far:


August 29 - Peace Love and Poms 3rd Annual Show Case

1259 E. Main St. Annville PA

11 AM - 4 PM


October 9 - 11 - Stars Hollow Fall Festival

Historic Alexander Schaeffer Farm

10 AM - 6 PM each day.


Otherwise - check out:


Til our tails cross again,


Mel


  • May 11
  • 4 min read

What is dedication? It is: self-sacrificing, wholehearted devotion or commitment to a specific cause, person, or task. In this instance, I'm talking about loyalty to a thing or person. I knew after my last post I needed to do a little shout-out to a few people. Clearly, their dedication to me - and more specifically my blog posts, hit me hard in a good way.


We are all busy - life, work, friends, home, etc. So when someone takes the few minutes it takes to actually read my blog AND write a reply, comment, or rate me (even with 1 star...), I feel incredibly special. I expect most people in my circle won't or don't take the time to read whatever I've written. Which, honestly, is something that hurts, but I don't make a big deal about it. It hurts that my closest friends or family don't read it - why? Because I like to think that I support them in every way possible. However...not the point for this post.


Dedication - to reading my little blog, which is mostly about the 21 cats. I get it - reading or hearing the same stupid stories... no one wants to do that. But the small handful that checks it out, comments, and truly is waiting for the next post to come means the world to me.


I haven't even been super dedicated to my own blog and website. Life happens, and I fall into a slump of having nothing to write about or feeling that I shouldn't write about whatever little thought I had. But here I sit—writing about dedication. I encourage everyone to find something small to dedicate a piece of yourself to. Really—it's easy and doesn't take a ton of time. (Secretly, I'm hoping you'll choose to read my blog more regularly.)


So here goes - first shout out goes to: My father-in-law - Charlie. Did he ask to get the weekly email with my latest blog post link? Nope. Does he read it regularly? Yep. Does he leave a comment on the actual blog page? Not at all. But what he does do is a step above that. He replies to the email (which comes directly to ME). It's never just a simple "nice work" or "read your blog" kind of thing. It's a few sentences. This last email he sent - I see your blogs are not woke talk - your words make sense to me. Yep - my blogs are written just like I talk, mostly. I do actually use a spell/grammar check on them. My weakness is spelling and grammar - even though I read a lot. Of all people to read/follow/comment, he might not have been at the top of the list I had. BUT I absolutely love it. Because I do love him, we've always had good conversations - even if we don't agree on everything. (Hello religion and politics!) I hope he keeps on reading and emailing, and one day - maybe commenting on the blogs for everyone to see!


Second up - my friend Babs. I know she reads them; it's hit or miss if she reads each one. But in some way, she will let me know she's read one of them, usually by text. This last time, she tried to leave a comment, and it didn't work - it came through as a contact submission to my email. But she ended up texting me to ask where the selfie of me and the constable was. So, for all those wondering... YES, there was a selfie with the (don't read this, Gene) hottie constable. Will it ever be on the internet? ABSOLUTELY NOT. One - technically, it's not legal to be getting selfies with any sort of law enforcement on duty in uniform. Second - there's a LOT of personal information that can be seen or gotten from that photo. So, if you want to see it - you have to actually know me and have my current phone number! So please, Babs - keep on reading and maybe get the comment thing figured out!


Third up - my husband Gene - who is supportive in everything I do, even if he doesn't quite show it. My blog is one of those things that he supports (he's put in lots of time helping me get the backend working when I get stuck) but actually doesn't read the majority of the posts I write. Which is okay - generally speaking, he's lived through whatever I'm writing about. But every so often, he does read them when I least expect it. He read the one about AI (which we STRONGLY disagree on) and then - he read the constable one. For the first time, he actually left a comment AND had the nerve to leave me a one-star review. I'm certain he did that in fun and joking, which will take forever for me to get to a better 5-star rating (nudge nudge, rate all the blogs you read at 5 stars, please!)


Fourth up - Anne - she's a local Annville friend who I met through the Celebrate Annville Committee and the Friends of the Annville Free Library committee. We are both pet sitters - nice to have someone to refer people to when I'm booked! Again - she's got her own life & kid, so choosing to read about my life and cats warms my heart.


Fifth up - Sharon H. She's a longtime friend whom I met many years ago in a class we both took for our jobs. She's hit or miss also with reading, but she does read them when she remembers or has the time.


I'm sure there are other readers—I just don't hear from them that they have read.


For each person that does read, comment, or share my blog, I really and truly appreciate it. I enjoy writing these blogs—knowing there are some people out there reading them warms my heart a little bit each time I hear someone has taken the time to read it.



Til our tails cross again,


Melanie


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